You will have so many different styles of parenting that brings forth tension and sometimes even debates. Don't feel overwhelmed or obligated to debate.
Parenting is different for everyone.
I woke up to a binki shoved in my mouth because my little was in the same bed as me. There are safe ways to co-sleep. But I don't feel obligated to explain myself at all. My memories with him are all precious, and our connection is unshakeable.
Love your baby the way he or she needs it the most. Don't let others shake you down from how you do you.
Because...It is just you and your babe. And each family is different.
Good thing, different is beautiful~